It gets a bit frustrating when I go to kiss him goodnight and he flat out refuses. But now he only likes it if he initiates it. It didn't matter if I kissed him first or if he kissed me. When we first got together, he loved kissing. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Don't let him hold it over you indefinitely. But if he can't get over a dumb mistake that you handled maturely, that's his fault. Be patient, but also don't let this go on forever: You made a dumb mistake. Going forward, you've got to give your boyfriend some time and space to get over this. Don't stay out when you know you should probably go home. It sounds like you're owning your mistake, so keep taking responsibility. A hangover isn't a get-of-jail-free card, so don't "blame it on the alcohol." and the booze helped that part of you win out over the part that knew better. It can lower your inhibitions and impair your judgment - but, ultimately, some part of you might have thought it would be fun/interesting/funny to make out with that stranger that night.
I've checked all the labels on my bottles of booze and nowhere does it say: "Will cause you to hook up with hot strangers and absolve you of all responsibility for cheating." Booze doesn't work that way. One thing: Don't lean too hard on the alcohol excuse. Play icon The triangle icon that indicates to play Just continue to accept responsibility, show him that you care, and hope that he'll come around. You ask what else you can do - but, I've got to tell you, you've really handled the fallout well. You promised to change your behavior and you told him that one night's drunken dumb behavior doesn't reflect your true feelings. The first thing (making out with a dude who wasn't your boyfriend) was probably not what you'd describe as being your "best self." But the second thing was the mature, right thing and I respect you for doing it: You took responsibility for your mistake. I told him I will never binge-drink again, but he seems to think it wasn't the alcohol that was the problem, although I continuously reassure him that I want nobody other than him. But it doesn't seem to make a difference. I continuously apologize, tell him it was the biggest mistake of my life, and tell him how much he means to me. He was very upset, and is now taking time to think about whether or not he wants to continue on with this relationship. Immediately after hearing this information, I told my boyfriend. According to my friends, I kissed another guy. I drank too much and don't remember much of the night at all. The other night, I went on a bar crawl and hadn't eaten dinner beforehand.
We recently graduated college and decided to try to do long-distance as we have jobs in different cities. I have been dating my boyfriend for six months and love him very much.
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